I just wanted... I wanted someone to love me.

我只是...想要有人爱我。

Well, I'm gonna need someone to love me, Claire.

因为我需要有人疼爱 克莱尔。

Narcissus was a handsome guy wandering the world in search of someone to love.

那希瑟斯是一个英俊的小伙子， 他环游世界为了寻找自己的爱人。

Maybe you just want to find someone to love because you don't like being alone.

也许你只是想找个人来爱，因为你不喜欢一个人。

In one telling, Narcissus was a handsome guy wandering the world in search of someone to love.

有一种说法是，那西瑟斯是一个英俊的小伙子， 他为了寻找自己的爱人而环游世界。

Everyone who was hurt badly as a child has a deep need to feel safe, and a desire for someone to love them and connect with them.

每个在童年受过伤害的人，都需要并且渴望获得安全感，以及他人的爱护与关怀。

But the other day I started thinking about what I actually want out of life and I realized it was someone to love.

但是有一天，我开始思考我真正想要的生活是什么，我意识到这是一个值得爱的人。

Which was immensely kind, but did us one lasting disservice, It may have unwittingly created an expectation of what it could mean for someone to love us which was never true in the first place.

这是非常友善的， 但对我们造成了持久的伤害，它可能不知不觉地产生了一种期望， 即人们对爱我们意味着什么， 这从一开始就不是真的。