During our youth, however, we needed to establish a social self, one that was cohesive and would allow us to fit in.

然而，在我们的青年时期，我们需要建立一个社会自我，一个有凝聚力并能让我们融入社会的自我。

Stage three, social self, adolescence, domesticated adult.

第三阶段，社会自我，青春期，驯化成人。

And this social self allows the individual to experience themselves as part of a group.

这种社会自我让个人能够体验到自己是群体的一部分。

So, after we have this personal self in stage two online, many people form a social self.

所以，当我们在网上有了第二阶段的个人自我之后，很多人就形成了社交自我。