And they're saying, look, we're older, we're bigger, we're more experienced, we're maturer, and so we are going to be more selective, more disciplined.

他们说，看，我们更老，我们更大，我们更有经验，我们更成熟，所以我们会更有选择性，更自律。

Taught from earliest childhood, by all that he sees and hears, that the rod is for the slave's back, he will not be apt to change his opinions in maturer years.

他从小就被教导， 根据他的所见所闻，棍子是用来打奴隶的背的， 他长大后不会轻易改变自己的观点。

That was often the trick of men who had sealed by marriage, in their inexperienced youth, a love for those whom their maturer judgment would have rejected as too obviously disproportionate in years.

这通常是男人们的把戏，他们在缺乏经验的青年时期通过婚姻封存了对那些他们成熟的判断力会拒绝的人的爱，因为这些人在年龄上明显不相称。