There seems to be something about finding emotion in a place where it is not expected that upsets people.

似乎是发现一个不该有情感的机器却有了情感这类事使人类感到不安。

If it's like the cityside, and if the wife is also working, obviously it's not expected that the wife ends up doing everything.

在城市里，如果妻子也工作的话，那显然妻子不会负责所有的事情。

However, the difference between " state" and " status" is that with " state" you're asking about the condition of things right now – of the situation, but it is not expected that that situation would change.

但是，“state” 和“status”之间的区别在于， 使用“state” 时，您是在询问当前的情况 – 情况， 但预计情况不会改变。